DEAR DEIDRE: A FEW months ago I noticed my partner was watching porn every day. About that time our sex life went downhill. We have been together for over two years and

DEAR DEIDRE: A FEW months ago I noticed my partner was watching porn every day. About that time our sex life went downhill.

We have been together for over two years and are planning to move in together. I am 24, he is 28.

 Sex life has gone downhill since partner started watching porn every day
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Sex life has gone downhill since partner started watching porn every day

I stay at his whenever possible. One night we were lying in bed together when he started looking at porn on his phone. I said I was not happy with that and he said he just wanted to masturbate.

Next day I told him I felt this was disrespectful to me and he apologised and said he would stop watching it altogether.

He kept this up for about a month and then started again. He says he loves me and wants only me.

He says he never wants to be without me and that I am his special person, but this makes me feel I’m not good enough for him.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Most men look at porn sometimes but your partner’s habit is affecting your sex life together and he is choosing it over having “real” sex with you.

That suggests he is developing an addiction – and online porn these days tends to be very addictive. The algorithms work to make it so.

Read Sex Addiction by Paula Hall, a self-help guide for couples (Routledge). This practical book explains how you and your fiancé can sort this.


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