How to revive your sex life with four simple steps and pimp up your positions
- The Sun Uk
- Sex & Love
EVERY couple goes through a dry spell now and then.
1 — Swap no talk for dirty talk
Naughty chat is a great way to build positive anticipation, which is absolutely key to boosting your levels of desire, arousal and satisfaction.
Start off with suggestive talk during the day, when you are apart.
Each of you should send the occasional text message describing what it is you are most looking forward to doing later.
This helps to set the tone and gives you each key hints and tips about what your partner would like to try in bed.
Then when you are together, take it in turns to give one another some playful instructions.
And remember, if they are doing it right – tell them.
2 — Play with the power dynamic
Swapping who is the boss in bed pushes you out of your comfort zone and can really help to switch things up sexually.
In this scenario it is time to play opposites.
So, for example, if you are naturally submissive, make a change and take control and proposition your usually dominant partner in a surprising way.
If the idea of a costume helps, put on your sexiest outfit and start seducing.
3 — Indulge in afterplay
After physical intimacy should come emotional intimacy, which is why post sex is the perfect time to talk to your partner in a deep, meaningful way.
It is the time in your relationship when you are closest.
Talk about your sex session and the best bits and mention what you would like to try next time. This will do wonders for overall intimacy levels.
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4 — Pimp up your positions
Plain missionary is out. Jazz up the position with the addition of pillows under the bottom to tilt the pelvis back.
This provides better stimulation and easier access to the G-spot.
Bring your knees to her ears for even deeper penetration, or put her legs over your shoulders if you want to control the depth.