EVERY couple goes through a dry spell now and then. Work stress, kids who never knock and years of the same old sex can dampen passion to the point of no return.

EVERY couple goes through a dry spell now and then.

Work stress, kids who never knock and years of the same old sex can dampen passion to the point of no return. But there are simple changes you can make in the bedroom to boost a flagging love life.

 If you're going through a dry spell then listen up - these five tips will liven things up
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If you're going through a dry spell then listen up - these five tips will liven things up

Here sexpert Annabelle Knight tells Bella Battle five saucy swaps that will rev up and revive your libido in no time.

1 — Swap no talk for dirty talk

Naughty chat is a great way to build positive anticipation, which is absolutely key to boosting your levels of desire, arousal and satisfaction.

Start off with suggestive talk during the day, when you are apart.

 Talking dirty to your partner will increase your excitement in the bedroom and lead to a more pleasurable experience
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Talking dirty to your partner will increase your excitement in the bedroom and lead to a more pleasurable experience

Each of you should send the occasional text message describing what it is you are most looking forward to doing later.

This helps to set the tone and gives you each key hints and tips about what your partner would like to try in bed.

Then when you are together, take it in turns to give one another some playful instructions.

And remember, if they are doing it right – tell them.

2 — Play with the power dynamic

Swapping who is the boss in bed pushes you out of your comfort zone and can really help to switch things up sexually.

In this scenario it is time to play opposites.

 Role play may give your sex life the exciting boost it is after
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Role play may give your sex life the exciting boost it is after

So, for example, if you are naturally submissive, make a change and take control and proposition your usually dominant partner in a surprising way.

If the idea of a costume helps, put on your sexiest outfit and start seducing.

3 — Indulge in afterplay

After physical intimacy should come emotional intimacy, which is why post sex is the perfect time to talk to your partner in a deep, meaningful way.

It is the time in your relationship when you are closest.

 Don't stop once the sex is over - enjoy each others company and get to know each other again
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Don't stop once the sex is over - enjoy each others company and get to know each other again

Talk about your sex session and the best bits and mention what you would like to try next time. This will do wonders for overall intimacy levels.

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4 — Pimp up your positions

Plain missionary is out. Jazz up the position with the addition of pillows under the bottom to tilt the pelvis back.

This provides better stimulation and easier access to the G-spot.

 Try something new - you will be surprised how much difference switching up your positions can have
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Try something new - you will be surprised how much difference switching up your positions can have

Bring your knees to her ears for even deeper penetration, or put her legs over your shoulders if you want to control the depth.

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